How these two meet
The friction here is that there is not enough of it, and you have both been quietly relieved about that for years.
Two mutable signs means nobody holds a position long enough for it to become a wall. A disagreement starts, one of you rephrases and the other adapts, and inside a minute there is nothing left to disagree about and nothing much left of what was being said either.
Mercury goes back over its own ground three times a year. Jupiter spends 30.1 per cent of its time apparently travelling backwards and takes 11.85 years to cross the twelve signs, so it revises slowly and on an enormous scale. One of you is revising this sentence. The other is revising the last four years. Neither of you has a fixed point anywhere in the building.
So the plans move, and move again, and nobody has been overruled and nobody has been let down, and there is a small cold thing underneath it that neither of you can name, because naming it would mean holding still.
For Gemini, the work is saying one thing and not offering the softer alternative in the same breath.
For Pisces, the work is disagreeing before you have felt out how it is going to land on them.
And a third: adaptability is not agreement. You have been treating them as the same thing for a long time.
The question
When did either of you last finish a sentence you meant?
One conscious action
one position, held for a day
Each of you take one small position this week and do not move on it for twenty-four hours. Nothing large. Where to eat is enough.
The position is not the point. Finding out that the house does not fall down is the point.
Mercury revises three times a year and Jupiter revises across a decade, and between you there is nothing that has to stay the way it was said.
That is why nobody here has ever felt trapped, and neither of you has had that anywhere before.
It is also why neither of you knows what the other one actually wants, and you have had years to find out.